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What is Valentine's Day?

February 14, 2018

 

 

 

It was just like school

when she had hoped

that her big

construction paper envelope

would be full

of candy hearts

and drug store valentines

and that the last one

she opened

would be from him

 

- DRD

 

 

What is Valentine’s Day?

 

It’s an ancient Pagan fertility festival. It’s a day when the Roman’s martyred Valentinus. It’s a day when the Christians celebrate love. But mostly, it’s a day when we choose.

 

It’s hoping your big construction-paper-envelope will be full of candy hearts and drug-store valentines. It’s hoping that last one is from her. It’s a day to compare.

 

It’s elation and crushed hopes. Anxiety and relief. It’s tears and smiles.

 

It’s a day to communicate without saying a word - a chance to be kind or cruel.

 

It’s a means of seduction and an excuse to get laid. It’s an opportunity to say, out of all my choices, you won. It’s a chance for her to be a prize.

 

It’s dinner, flowers and four hours of presence to make up for a year’s worth of absence. It’s pretend connected intimacy.

 

It’s a guilt trip. It’s compulsory. It’s a chance to fuck up. It’s a chance to show up.

 

It’s a payday for florists and restaurants, hotels and babysitters. It’s streamlined menus and churning tables. It’s 19 Billion dollars of business. It’s an institution and a ritual.

 

It’s the one night where you can be certain that the person you’re missing is staring into someone else’s eyes - touching under the table. It’s a time to whisper to the winter wind, Fuck I miss you.

 

It’s a hard night for disposable men and secret lovers.

 

And it’s proof that there’s balance. Proof that for every yin there’s a yang and wherever there’s light, somewhere close there’s also dark.

 

It’s a night to be alone in a crowd with him, or her. A night to eat fancy cheese. It’s a night to hear, I love you.

 

It’s a love letter from a man who can’t write.

 

It’s a good day to pass quickly. And if you’re like me, it’s a good night to drink.

 

What is Valentine’s Day? It’s a day that is most definitely about love.

 

It’s just another day.

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